Procrastination: Why Do We Put Things Off?

Procrastination! That horrible word that conjures up all kinds of disappointments, stress and guilt. "Why can't I just get started?" is a common question for many of us. And I'm no exception!

Here's a great example. I got the idea to write this blog about a week ago. And here I am, finally doing it. Okay, it's great that I finally got around to it, but what took me so long? Well, I have a long list of excuses, but for me, there's a difference between excuses and reasons. Excuses tend to be made-up or imagined, whereas reasons tend to be more valid. So I don't think I legitimately have a good reason, only a list of excuses. 

You can find all kinds of research on procrastination, including how to stop procrastinating, how to overcome procrastination, and many others. But let's just check out the basics. Merriam-Webster defines procrastination as: "to put off intentionally the doing of something that should be done".  They also tell us that the origin of the word "procrastinate" is from the Latin procrastinatus, broken down as pro, meaning "forward", and crastinus, meaning "of tomorrow". So the whole idea is based on putting something off until tomorrow, that could have been done today.

According to two experts on procrastination, Joseph Ferrari, Ph.D., associate professor of psychology at DePaul University in Chicago, and Timothy Pychl, Ph.D., associate professor of psychology at Carleton University in Ottawa, 20% of all people admit they're chronic procrastinators. That's a whole lot of things not getting done! So that raises the question, "Why do we procrastinate?"

Why Do We Procrastinate?

How to stop procrastinating is actually, at least to me, a fascinating study. Now, I'm no expert, but there are many in the field who can give you all kinds of perspectives on it. So if you're interested in delving deeper into the subject, here are a few ideas for resources:

I particularly like the subtitle of "The Art of Procrastination: A Guide to Effective Dawdling, Lollygagging and Postponing". And that's a pretty good description of procrastination, isn't it? Dawdling, lollygagging and postponing! We've all been guilty of at least one, and probably all, of those three at some time in our lives, haven't we? And I'm sure there's a whole long list of other words you can use in a similar way. 

So why, indeed, do we procrastinate? Well, as I've just illustrated, there are all kinds of reasons and excuses. But here are a few reasons that come to mind:

• Fear of failure
• Fear of success
• Laziness
• Boredom
• Lack of priority management
• Need for perfection (sort of like fear of failure)
• Self sabotage
• Strict child rearing (also associated with fear of failure)

Now those are just a few of, as I mentioned, many reasons why we procrastinate. The first step to take in learning how to stop procrastinating is to identify how many of those reasons apply to you. Sit down and give it some serious thought. Figure out what's stopping you from taking that first step, from picking up that pen, from turning on that computer, from cleaning that first room, from washing that first floor. Again, I'm only touching the very tip of the iceberg when it comes to all the things we tend to put off when we should be doing them.

How To Stop Procrastinating

So now that we've identified why we're not doing what we're supposed to be doing, the next logical step is to come up with a plan on how to stop procrastinating. Let's look at the example of this blog and how I put it off for a week. Putting aside the fact that I'm having some bothersome health issues, there really aren't any good reasons why I didn't just get started. Today, my health issues haven't changed, and yet I'm writing the blog. What's the difference?

For me, I probably suffer from the fear of failure because I'm a perfectionist. I want everything I do to be the best and I sometimes tend to worry about what others might think. Now that is a very important point. If you're going around always worrying about what others think of you, then you're never going to move forward. Here's a wonderful statement I used to turn this negativity around: "What you think of me is none of my business." What's important is what you think of yourself and what you do and who you are. If you're confident that you're a good person, then who cares what somebody else thinks. What they think is based on what's usually their own insecurities, not on you. So just consider the source and ignore it.

Now that you're feeling confident and energetic, you can move ahead and start your project, whatever it may be. It doesn't have to be perfect, it just has to be done. Did you get that? It's worth repeating:

It doesn't have to be perfect, it just has to be done.

Now the above conditions are some that tend to drive us to procrastination. I've looked at the list and I've identified with those that apply to me, and I've come up with a solution to the challenge of how to overcome procrastination. You can do the same, you know. It's not rocket science. It CAN be done! You CAN do it! Remember what Henry Ford said: "Whether you think you can, or you think you can't - you're right."

Here's another quick thought to get your mind going in the right direction: Your thoughts are the building blocks of your future. Henry Ford referred to what you think, and he was right! What you think defines what you experience. There's another one worth repeating:

What you think defines what you experience.

So take your To-Do List and start checking off those items. Can you imagine how you'll feel when you mark them off as done? Won't you feel a great sense of accomplishment? Won't you feel wonderful? Of course you will! And that's what life is all about, right? - feeling wonderful; feeling joy; feeling peace of mind. 

I have a sign I made and posted on the top of my computer screen. It says in big red letters:

Just do it!

So go ahead, take a deep breath, and dive into your project. Believe me, you'll be glad you did!

Here are some other resources to help you along the way. And above all, have fun!

Here's a great idea to keep your mind on the right path - a French Crystal Medallion to put on your desk right in front of you:

Recommended Reading

Here are a couple of books to help you organize your time and your life:

And here's one of my favorites, a classic from Brian Tracy: (Click on the link) Eat That Frog! 2nd Edition: 21 great ways to stop procrastinating, improve organization skills, and get more done in less time, By Brian Tracy

Have fun with the getting it done!

Mindvalley: Pushing Humanity Forward

Where Did Mindvalley Come From?

I believe there's a general - and often cynical - view of corporations these days. It seems that the pursuit of the mighty dollar - and thus, greed - guides the directors of many large companies. It's unfortunate that the basic principles of life are ignored. The principles I'm specifically referring to are those of giving and receiving. It's very simple and it works, whether you believe it or not. The principle is simply stated as "You get what you give."

So when many corporations disregard the highest good of the people, they make profit at the expense of the consumer. Well, it's a comfort knowing that not all companies are like that. I recently came across a company who understands that the principles of life can be combined with the principles of business to create and develop a company who cares. That company is Mindvalley. Even the name is inspiring. Mindvalley's motto is "Pushing Humanity Forward" and that's exactly what they do...and all they do.

Vishen Lakhiani is the founder and CEO of Mindvalley. His goal was to form a company whose primary goal was to help people reach their Highest Good. His principles have reached out to many areas, including entrepreneurship, marketing, self-development, and anything else he can find that will help to move humanity towards a place of peace and joy. With a goal like that - always giving - it's no wonder that Vishen Lakhiani is now one of the most sought-after speakers on education and internet marketing. And globally, Mindvalley is now established in countries all over the world - Latin America, Poland, Russia, Italy and the Middle East. There's got to be something working well here, don't you think?

Mindvalley has attracted some very inspirational leaders in the world today. He's a master at creating and developing programs that offer highly effective ways of finding a better way; of becoming a better person; of reaching higher levels of enlightenment. Let's take a look at some of the programs that make Mindvalley so special.

Omharmonics: Meditation Music at its Most Effective Level

Omharmonics is a program that institutes highly technological meditation music, incorporating many principles that are way beyond my understanding. But I bought into the program, realizing that this is leading-edge technology and I didn't need to understand it to benefit from it. (And that was my first introduction to Mindvalley). I've garnered full benefit from the Omharmoncs recordings on CD.  Thousands of people use them every day to relax and relieve their stress and get back into the positive energy level that is their Natural State. You can check it out for yourself by clicking here.

The Silva Life System by Jose Silva

Hose Silva, although now deceased, left a legacy of mind empowerment programs. He started his career as a radio repairman. In his work, he dealt with the electrical principle of resistance. He knew that less resistance in an electrical wire allowed more electricity to flow through it. Then he had the idea that, "Why can't that principle be duplicated in the human being?" So he created and developed a program that allowed people, through relaxation techniques, to lower their resistance; that is, to reduce the level of stress and reach a place of peace that allowed deeper levels of intuition and ingenuity. This program has become known as The Silva System, and it's one of Mindvalley's most popular programs. 

Here are some links to the Silva Life System programs available from Mindvalley:

The Silva System

Silva Manifesting

Silva Mind Body Healing

Silva Intuition System

More Awesome Mindvalley Programs to Benefit You

Mindvalley has a range of programs, all designed to enhance your lifestyle, and your life. Just as an aside here, I can tell you from experience, that if ever you need any kind of help with any of Mindvalley's programs, there's always a smiling happy face on the other end of the phone, waiting to cheerily help you in any way they can. What a wonderful change from some of the "customer service" departments at many corporations!

I'd like to introduce you to some of Mindvalley's other programs. They cover many areas that many people are discovering and exploring these days. It's obvious that there's a strong wave of positive energy that's reaching all around the world, seeing enlightenment and spiritual peace. All areas of advancement in life are being looked into, including visualization techniques, types of meditation, relaxation techniques, meditation music, and many other programs designed to help everyone lead a healthier, more joyful life. And Mindvalley has the best of the best! Here are some of their awesome programs you can take advantage of.

Chakra Healing

Love or Above

Quantum Jumping 2.0 - I've done this...it's awesome!!

The Art of Astral Projection

And last, but definitely not least, Mindvalley's latest launch of a fabulous program that absolutely everybody needs to tie into, Unlimited Abundance

Mindvalley Cares

You can clearly see that Mindvalley is a company who cares. They care about people. They care about humanity as a whole, moving forward to a place of greater health and wealth and happiness for all. Their workplace is a fine example. They attract employees from literally all over the world - over 100 employees from more than 30 countries, actually. And Vishen Lakhiani travels around the world, showing by example what it's like to create and maintain the ideal workplace. I can honestly say that I've never been more impressed, in every way, than I am by Mindvalley. Check them out. I'm sure you'll feel the same way. 

And here's another bestseller suggestion: It's Already Created a Million Millionaires! Get Your Free Copy of Think and Grow Rich. Click here.

Louise Hay

Louise L. Hay: An Inspiration to Millions

Louise L. Hay is known worldwide for the inspirational coaching she gives to those in need. Her teachings are global. Her wisdom is eternal. Recently, someone in the Australian media described her as "the closest thing to a living saint". 

Louise Hay came from very humble beginnings, surviving a childhood of pain and abuse. That was probably the training grounds for her now world-famous philosophies. She learned to heal herself - not only her mind, but her body and spirit as well. She studied the connection of that trilogy of mind-body-spirit. She developed the concept of healing that incorporated all three aspects of our human selves. The mind, body and spirit are all inter-connected, and each one affects the other in a myriad of ways. From that wisdom, Louise Hay wrote her first book, sharing her full wellness concept with the world. That book, Heal Your Body, has now been translated into 25 languages and published in 33 countries around the world. It's become known by many as "the little blue book". But what tremendous power in a "little blue book"!

Recommended Reading

This handy “little blue book” offers positive new thought patterns to replace negative emotions. It includes an alphabetical chart of physical ailments, the probable causes, and healing affirmations to help you eliminate old patterns.

Louise Hay says You Can Heal Your Body

My interpretation of this book has manifested itself to me in a phrase I use all the time: "What you think directly affects your body." A great example of that is what Louise Hay was able to do with her own teachings. She cured cancer! She was diagnosed with cancer and, instead of following traditional medicine, she got some psychotherapy, added a solid program of nutritional cleansing, and topped it all off with some positive affirmations and visualization. And it worked! She came out of it with a clean bill of health. So many people these days have been touched in some way by cancer, so you should understand how powerful a program such as Louise Hay followed would be so beneficial to so many.

Recommended Reading

The connection between your mind and body is close, powerful, and often a valuable tool in taking control of your life and ambitions. The power of thought can affect you in profound ways, particularly in regards to its truly incredible effect on your health, explored in detail within these pages.

This fascinating book by cutting-edge scientist David R. Hamilton explores the power of visualization, belief, and positive thinking—and their effects on the body. He also presents a revolutionary quantum-field healing meditation—through which you can change yourself on an atomic level—and shows you how you can use your imagination and thought processes to combat disease, pain, and illness.

You will see how science and belief systems can merge . . . so that you can heal yourself more effectively than ever before!

           

HayHouse: Your Complete Source for Louise Hay Books 

Louise Hay started her publishing company in her living room. She was so successful that she's now expanded into a wonderful publishing company that offers all kinds of inspirational books, complete with Louise Hay Affirmations, Louise Hay Quotes, Hayhouse Radio, and a wide range of other helpful material to get you on the right track towards your Natural State of Well-Being. You can also find some other great world-renown authors there, like Esther and Jerry Hicks, Doreen Virtue, Neale Donald Walsch (one of my personal favorites), and Dr Wayne Dyer. Now THAT is a source of inspirational material, don't you think?

Now Louise Hay has expanded her teaching and wisdom, going from healing your mind and body, to healing your life. You see, it's all connected, and the more you get each aspect into perspective and running properly, the more everything else will fall into place. 

Recommended Reading

This New York Times Bestseller has sold over 30 million copies worldwide. Louise’s key message in this powerful work is: “If we are willing to do the mental work, almost anything can be healed.” Louise explains how limiting beliefs and ideas are often the cause of illness, and how you can change your thinking…and improve the quality of your life! Packed with powerful information—you'll love this gem of a book! 

 

And here are some more bestsellers to help you out.


       

Louise Hay Branches Out into the Media

Well, I've given you a few Hay House books to read to help you get to where you want to be in life. But now, in this world of multi-media, Louise Hay has branched out into radio and movies.

Hayhouse Radio is very popular these days. It's filled with inspiration from motivational experts all around the world. You might well call it "wisdom radio" because that's what you'll impart from all the wonderful programs offered there.

And now, Louise Hay and Hay House offers you the ultimate in inspirational movies, You Can Heal Your Life: The Movie. Here's what Hay House has to say about the movie:

"Hay House is proud to announce the debut of the first-ever film on the life and work of our much-loved founder, Louise L. Hay in You Can Heal Your Life: The Movie!

This entertaining and inspirational movie hosted by best-selling author Louise L. Hay and directed by Emmy award winner Michael Goorjian gives penetrating insights into her fascinating life story; and also provides clarity on how her views on self-esteem, abundance, and the metaphysical causes behind physical ailments were developed. This expanded version includes over four hours of bonus material including 60 minutes of Interactive Teaching Affirmations and three hours of extended interviews.

A number of luminaries in the fields of self-help and health and spirituality and new thought—including Doreen Virtue, Gregg Braden, Wayne W. Dyer, Gay Hendricks, Esther and Jerry Hicks, Leon Nacson, Dr. Christiane Northrup, Dr. Candace B. Pert, Cheryl Richardson, Dr. Mona Lisa Schulz, and many others share their personal stories about Louise’s impact on their lives in You Can Heal Your Life, The Movie.

This movie, which is hosted by Louise, offers not only an intimate look into her moving and inspirational life story, but also a special segment devoted to helping you apply Louise’s affirmations and groundbreaking wisdom to heal your own life and the challenges that you face today.

“This movie is the story of my life, my teachings and how I’ve applied the principles of my teachings to my own life. I’ve made enormous changes in my own life that I had no idea would be possible.”
When asked what message she hoped people would take with them after seeing You Can Heal Your Life: The Movie, Louise said, “I’d like to see them discover what they can really do for themselves. People are so hungry to learn how to take control of their lives.” 

Music is composed by Grammy Award Winner Musician Jim Brickman.



When you order today, we’ll send you the You Can Heal Your Life: The Movie Expanded Version, which includes the original 90-minute movie AND an exclusive Affirmation Toolkit that will bring you practical, inspiring affirmations directly from Louise (covering topics of self, relationships, health and wellness, prosperity, and work) to practice, learn, and apply to your own life.

PLUS you’ll also receive an additional Bonus DVD brimming with 4 additional hours of never-before-seen footage from the making of this empowering film about the extraordinary life and wisdom of Louise Hay. You’ll enjoy hours of remarkable interviews featuring personal stories, astonishing testimonials, frank conversations, and amusing anecdotes by Louise, Wayne Dyer, Esther and Jerry Hicks, Dr. Christiane Northrup, Gregg Braden, Doreen Virtue, Cheryl Richardson, Gay Hendricks, Dr. Mona Lisa Schulz, and Leon Nacson."

Watch the trailer at www.youcanhealyourlifemovie.com!

Louise Hay has your positive affirmations

So you can see the wonderful positive influence Louise Hay has had on many many lives all around the world. A "saint" she definitely is. I'm sure she'll go down in the history books right along with Mother Theresa. 

So if you're having trouble with some kind of illness, whether it be mental or physical, Louise Hay has the resources to help you. Her books and audios and videos are chock full of positive affirmations, and if you want to delve a little deeper, there are some positive spiritual affirmations. You'll find positive statements, positive attitude quotes, and all kinds of uplifting words of inspiration to help you along your way. Louise Hay is a saint. Be sure to make use of her wisdom and her inspiration, just as millions of others have already. 

Blessings Be.

Laws of Attraction

Universal Laws

Everyone these days is looking for the laws of attraction. Laws of attraction are universal laws. And everyone knows what universal laws are, right? They're those laws that work, whether you believe them or not. Case in point, the law of gravity. You can jump off the top of a building as you proclaim, "I don't believe in the law of attraction!..........." But that doesn't prevent you from falling, does it? Well, it's just as true with all universal laws. And these days, the Law of Attraction is really in the spotlight.

Why are the laws of attraction so important these days? Because people are joining a universal awakening, and realizing that they have Divine Power to get what they want. (For more on getting what you want, check out my blog: How to Get What You Want.)

Almost everyone these days has heard of Abraham Hicks. And if you've heard of them, you're probably familiar with the wonderfully inspiring teachings of Esther and Jerry Hicks, in association with Abraham. The way I understand it, Abraham is a spirit who channels wisdom through Esther Hicks - thus the name Abraham Hicks. Esther and Jerry have written a number of books based on the Laws of Attraction. Actually, I guess you could say there's only one Law of Attraction and, as stated by Abraham Hicks,  it goes like this: "That which is likened to itself is drawn." That is a Universal Law, and there's no doubting it. Of course, you have the option of doubting if it you choose. But then you'll be left wondering why you're not getting what you want.

Here's a program by another expert in the field of the Law of Attraction, Joe Vitale. Joe Vitale isn't called "Mr Fire" for no reason. He really knows how to kindle the fire of desire in you. To check out his abundance program, click here! You'll also benefit tremendously if you read "Ask and It Is Given". Notice that this is "The Teachings of Abraham", channeled and expressed through Esther Hicks.

What is the Law of Attraction?

So everybody wants to know, "What is the Law of Attraction". Doesn't that tell you that there's a huge void in our lives - in the world? What's wrong if everybody is always looking for more? To me, that just means that, individually, we have voids in our lives. And those voids don't come from materialism (at least, for more of us). The real voids are in our hearts, where we've forgotten how to fill those empty spaces. So we just have to return to the Universal Law. 

All we need to do, as individuals, is to understand what is the Law of Attraction. Once we figure that out, our lives - and the world - will become complete. Our lives will be filled with joy and abundance. Everyone will understand the Law of Attraction and have the ability and faith to make it work for them...and for those around them. And that's what we all want, right?

Here are a couple of programs that will help you break down your walls, unlock your doors, and allow the flow of abundance to enter your world.

Attractor Genie - Law Of Attraction Software

The Forgotten Laws

I Create Reality: Beyond Visualization

Universal Law

Getting back to Abraham Hicks and Universal Law, the Law of Attraction is one of those laws that you need to understand because, remember, Universal Laws work, whether you believe them or not. But it's in the understanding of the laws that the rewards come. Just imagine, if you had the power to manifest all your desires. The beautiful thing about that thought is that it's true! You do have the power to bring all your dreams to fruition. It's all in the understanding, and then, in the implementing of the principles set out in the education available from all the experts in the Law of Attraction. 

And speaking of all those principles, that was all introduced to the world (well, media-wise, because the principles have existed forever), in the introduction of "The Secret". That video and book was a wake-up call, an inspiration, to millions of people around the world. People began to realize that they actually did have the power to get what they want. And so they watched The Secret, they bought the book, they listened to the experts. And so many people around the world have benefited from the wisdom offered by this wonderful program. 

If you're one of the few people who haven't yet enjoyed the experience of The Secret, don't let this opportunity pass you by.

     

Make Use of the Principles of the Law of Attraction...and Reap the Rewards

So I've given you a few resources to get in touch with, and benefit from, the Law of Attraction. It's really not rocket science, as they say. Just follow the teachings of the experts and you'll get to where you want to go. To help you along, here's one of hundreds of videos available on YouTube, with the coaching of Abraham Hicks. I just love listening to Esther as she, in her humorous and casual way, imparts the wisdom of the Law of Attraction. 




So now you have all the resources you need to begin manifesting all your desires. Get to it! What's holding you back? What's stopping you? Only you! Only you can stop the attraction of all you want. You have full control. You're in the driver's seat. You're piloting the plane. You in charge! Make use of all the wonderful principles of the Laws of Attraction and all will be yours. Promise!

And here's another bestseller suggestion: It's Already Created a Million Millionaires! Get Your Free Copy of Think and Grow Rich. Click here.

Feelings

Feelings...such a diverse word. So many aspects involved, ranging from the very negative to the very positive, and everything in between. So today, I'd like to talk a bit about feelings, and how they can make or break you, and how to control your feelings and emotions.

First, we'll get technical and give you the dictionary meaning. Feelings and emotions are intertwined. Merriam -Webster defines feelings  as: "a : an emotional state or reaction; b : the overall quality of one's awareness; and c : conscious recognition". Emotions are defined as: "a conscious mental reaction (as anger or fear) subjectively experienced as strong feeling usually directed toward a specific object and typically accompanied by physiological and behavioral changes in the body".

What really jumps out at me from the definition of emotions is how emotions are manifested in your body. Feelings and emotions release chemicals in your body that, if negative, can create illness. And that's because illness is actually just dis-ease - a lack of ease in the mind.

So with that in mind, lets go back to the definition of feelings. Notice the "conscious recognition" part. That means that you're aware of your feelings. Of course you are. Aren't we all? And that's why it's so important to know how to control your emotions. I've always viewed feelings and emotions as a meter of how you either react or respond to your daily challenges. And, yes, most of us have daily challenges, don't we? But those are only opportunities to learn and progress closer to Who We Really Are. 

How to Control your Emotions and Feelings

So let's look at the kind of situations that affect your feelings throughout your day. For me, I love music. I've been a musician - very amateur, but a musician nonetheless - most of my life. When I feel bad, I love to listen to music. Here's an example of a wonderful video that I love so much. Not only do I really love the recording, but the pictures and messages that accompany it bring me so much enjoyment. Now that's what feeling good is all about!

So there's one example of how you might channel your feelings toward a more positive level. Perhaps you have feeling words. By that, I mean words that make you feel good. You should always have a repertoire of feeling words at the ready for when you have to work towards controlling your emotions. Make your list. Keep it handy. Some examples of feeling words, for me, are: joy, sunshine, laughter, love - especially love. Bring those words to mind when you need to raise your level of vibration and emotion.

I'm no expert on feelings and emotions. I just know what works for me, and in sharing it with you, I hope that it can work for you, too. Joyce Meyer is a recognized expert on the subject, and she has a great book titled Managing your Emotions. If you think that might help you, you can get a copy here. She's also written a similar book which might help you: 

Living Beyond Your Feelings: Controlling Emotions So They Don't Control You

How to Make your Feelings Work for You

Putting your feelings to work for you is really a simple process. When you're in control of your feelings, you're riding high on the wave of life and love. And love is the most important and beneficial feeling you can possibly have. When you're feeling love, you're connected to your Source. You're in touch with your Soul. You're Being Who You Are. And that's all that really matters. Nothing that happens to you matters more than you feeling love. That's the remedy that will cure all your woes. 

Here's a thought that might help you. Think about what you do when you're met with a situation that you might automatically consider negative. Do you react, or do you respond? The difference I see in the two is that when you react, you do so unconsciously and that usually manifests itself as negative emotion, like anger, depression, and so forth. But when you respond, you do so with control of your feelings. You're able to look at the situation from an objective point of view and respond with a conscious positive thought that will produce positive results. Perhaps that might sound idealistic to you, but here's what I found. The more you respond instead of react, the better you'll get at it until, finally, you'll find that it becomes second nature. And isn't that something that everyone wants - to be in control of your feelings - automatically?

So the bottom line for me is, approach life with love. That's the feeling that will answer all negative situations. It's always been said that love conquers all and there's a very good reason for that - it's true! And "Ye shall know the Truth, and the Truth shall set you free." Enjoy that freedom. Enjoy your positive feelings. Just enjoy!

And I'm going to leave you with another positive, uplifting song to bring you some more good feelings. And remember to take those feelings with you into your daily activities. And, again, enjoy!

Unlimited Abundance

Everyone wants unlimited abundance, don't they? So why doesn't everyone have it? There are a number of reasons for that. From my perspective, I believe that most people who's abundance hasn't reached them yet are, in one way or another, blocking it. And it's our thoughts that build those walls. Our thoughts are the building blocks of our future. As mentioned last week, if you're not getting what you want, then you need to start focusing on the vision of having it, instead of the apparent lack of it.

So think back on, say, the last 30 years. What direction has your life taken in the last 30 years? And not just yourself, but have you ever stopped and wondered what progress society has made in the last 30 years?

If you've tuned into the news lately, you already know the answer is disappointing.  It turns out that we’re actually worse off now than we were 30 years ago.

So it's natural to wonder - what changed? Part of the problem is all the talk of cut-backs and recession in the media over the past few years.

You see, when you're surrounded by that kind of negativity, it's very hard not to internalize it... And your subconscious naturally reacts by telling you to focus your energy on keeping what you have now instead of on what you might achieve.

But here’s the truth, ladies and gentlemen.

You ARE able to attract the life you desire – the paycheck, the house, the promotion – and getting it has nothing to do with your education, intelligence or luck...

>>> And this video will tell you how :-)

It’s from Vishen Lakhiani, the founder of the personal growth publisher company Mindvalley. He has a few very important questions to ask you about your current mindset and how it may be influencing your ability to manifest more abundance in your life. 

Together, we’re going to try and help you attract the wealth and abundance you deserve in 2013.

But this isn’t going to be some preachy sermon on the do’s and don’ts of attracting abundance – the results from this survey will go directly into creating a free webinar to give you practical advice on how to make next year your most successful ever.

>>> Click here to get the ball rolling on your 2013. 

And here's another bestseller suggestion: It's Already Created a Million Millionaires! Get Your Free Copy of Think and Grow Rich. Click here.

How To Get What You Want

There's a question on many minds these days - how to get what you want. Most people are driven to succeed. Most people are continually searching for what they want. You look high and low. You work for it. You pray for it. You beg for it. You do whatever you can to get what you want. But somehow, it's not working. And that's because, when it comes to trying to figure out how to get what you want, most people are looking in the wrong place.

So where should you be looking? Within, of course. I'll remind you of one of my favorite sayings by Neale Donald Walsch: "If you don't go within, you go without." "So", you may be asking, "how can everything I want be inside of me?" Well, that's because you are an individual part of the Divine Whole, and that Whole - that Universe, that God, or whatever name you want to put to it - is infinite and eternal. Everything that could ever possibly exist, exists on that plane. It's what I like to call The Realm of Everything you Want.

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How To Get Everything You Want

How many people ever really get everything they want? Do you know how to get everything you want? Okay, so we've established that you have to go inside. And the reason you do that is to raise your vibrational level to that of what you want. What you want already exists. It just exists on a higher vibrational level than your thoughts about what you want. So the solution is simple. It may not be easy. In fact, it can take a lot of work - a lot of positive thoughts and emotions and feelings. But don't you think it's worth it? Wouldn't you just love to have everything you want? Wouldn't your life look a lot different? Think about it. Think about what you want. Think about everything you want. For the more you think about what you want and focus on those things, the closer you're going to come to them.

There are a few things you can do, specifically, when you're working towards finding out how to get everything you want. I've just mentioned one of the most important ones - focus. But don't forget to add the feeling along with that. The feelings you have when you're picturing yourself having everything you want are the catalyst that sets the Universe in motion. Feelings and thoughts are energy. And when you're vibrating at a high level of energy with positive affirmative thoughts, then you're aligning yourself with the energy of everything you want. 

Now add daily - or hourly if you want - affirmations. Write down what you want. Then read it, at least every morning and every night. Keep it fresh in your mind. Especially think of it as you go to sleep because your subconscious mind is working away as you sleep, and it's working on what you had on your mind as you drifted off to sleep. Remember that, every night, because it's a powerful tool that's at your disposal when you're learning how to get everything you want.

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How To Get What You Want in Life

So we're working on how to get what you want in life. You have the vision of it. And you're focusing on it. You're reading your daily affirmations. And slowly at first, things begin to manifest. And when that happens, the ball starts rolling. You start feeling better about yourself. You start to gain confidence in your ability to get what you want. And the more you get what you want, the better you feel - and the higher you vibrate. And that just keeps the ball rolling even faster. You become what my good friend, Tony Burroughs calls, a Mighty Manifester. Speaking of Tony Burroughs, he's got a great book that'll help you to get what you want. Check it out: Get What You Want: The Art of Making and Manifesting Your Intentions.


Now you're all set. Now you know how to get what you want in life. You know how to get everything you want in life. It's not rocket science - but it is science. There's a lot of research and study going on these days in the field of The Law of Attraction and how to get what you want. The experts are realizing that the mind has huge potential. The mind has tremendous power that can be used to get what you want. But don't forget to add the heart and soul to your requests. Remember, that's the catalyst.

So be all you want to be. Get everything you want to get. And go out into the world and share what you have. I'll touch more on sharing next week. Until then, happy manifesting!

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